Season of spouse murders in Kenya Currently, all media houses, national and social, are full of “murder news” by a spouse parner. IVY- Most recent victim of love murder I have looked and tried to find out why ladies are the most affected victims in this heinous acts and this is what I found: Men of all ages representing all professions, represent what ladies need most at that particular point in their lives; men look, live and breaths manifestations of what ladies want at that particular time. One lady had to say, “Like when we just need a little money the person we have nothing in common with, e.g, goals and values, comes into play when we want to be bailed out of our economic shell. These are people we date when we’re consciously prioritizing other things, or trying to get our needs met indirectly”. Ladies dates different men at different points in their life and dates simply because they offer what they need at that time. The high school boyfriend, the mu